Dealing With Homosexuality : Happy Sachin

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Dealing With Homosexuality A Big Quest OF This Era.

It is possible that some people have urges that are considered abnormal by others. Sometimes, from a religious perspective these urges would indeed be classified as abnormal. But simply having such urges does not justify acting upon them.

The issue of sexual orientation has raised a huge controversy in Western circles. People are still debating whether sexual orientation is decreed by what they call 'Nature', or by 'nurture'. And the reason for this debate is that there is a tendency to justify homosexual urges because, it is claimed, they are beyond one's control. So, some people say: “My sexual orientation is something Nature has decreed. It's in my DNA – my genes! So its not in my control whether I am attracted to the opposite gender or the same gender.”

Such discussion is happening in the backdrop of what has been termed the 'sexual revolution', which began in full force in the 60′s and, some would argue, is still continuing to this day. People are more open about topics of sexuality, morality levels have radically changed, and it has become acceptable to espouse what has been termed 'alternative life styles'. To give you just one example of how dramatic this revolution has been, many would be surprised to discover that even as recently as 50 years ago, Western culture viewed homosexuality with a very different lens. Up until 1973, homosexuality was actually classified as a mental disease in America.
I have been extraordinarily fortunate to have met many people who have emerged from the gay life. When I see the personal difficulties they have squarely faced, the sheer courage they have displayed not only in facing these difficulties but also in confronting a culture that uses every possible means to deny the validity of their values, goals, and experiences, I truly stand back in wonder... It is these people -- former homosexuals and those who are still struggling, all across America and aboard -- who stand for me as a model of everything good and possible in a world that takes the human heart, and the God of that heart, seriously. In my various explorations within the worlds of psychoanalysis, psychotherapy, and psychiatry, I have simply never before seen such profound healing."

Homosexuality Is not a phenomenon and has been rejected by Islam and other world religions as a perversion and a sin. Yet whereas in the past those who practiced homosexuality had mostly been either silent or marginalized, today they have gained wider acceptance and vocal support mostly due to sustained campaigning by gay rights groups to enhance their image and spread their appeal.

when a person is looking for a spouse, such a person should feel an attraction to somebody of a similar background and culture and age. Such is the way that Allah created us – a man is attracted to the natural beauty of a woman. And that is why in the past, for thousands of years, our own fathers, and forefathers before them, did not emphasize external beauty to even a fraction of what we do, and yet it can be argued, merely by looking at their divorce rates, that their marriages were far more successful than ours. The whole emphasis on external beauty was simply unnatural to them. All of you know how your own parents and grandparents got married, and their grandparents before them. The groom comes, sees the bride, and, generally speaking, there is an attraction and the marriage takes place. Nowadays, on the other hand, the very notion of a pre-arranged marriage is a mockery that we would not subjugate ourselves to (and I am not suggesting here that we should – I'm merely pointing out how things have changed in just one generation). This emphasis that we have on 'beauty' and 'compatibility' is a very modern phenomenon. Of course I'm not suggesting that people in the past did not care about beauty, but what I am saying is that it was not anywhere near as emphasized as it is now. Also, since the generations before us were raised in environments where they were not subjected to the sight of sexual images everywhere, they would not compare their prospective spouses to the sensual images of world-famous models that have been seared into our heads as a result of our upbringing here. When we expect our spouses to look like the most beautiful/handsome people on Earth (and it must be pointed out that most pictures we see are not even real, having been digitally altered to look super-humanly sexy), this will only lead to trouble.And so, when we have been bombarded with sexual images all the time, that which is naturally lustful loses its erotic nature. This then leads to being attracted to unnatural attractions. The bar for 'sexual titillation' rises higher and higher. It also explains certain sexual habits that are becoming more predominant between couples.

As traditional and religion-based arguments opposing homosexuality are getting sidelined and ridiculed as outdated by its secular supporters, debates are now taking place at the scientific, social, and political fronts. This special coverage tackles the issue on all these fronts and probes how modern society and individuals are dealing with this old problem

While no one consciously chooses to have homosexual feelings, there is nothing that indicates they are biologically determined to be forever homosexual. We will not arrogantly say that biology has absolutely no bearing on a vulnerability to homosexuality. However, even researchers agree that while there may be biological influences, they do not obligate a person to be homosexual. Just because the stage is set doesn't require the play to be acted out.

There are subtle messages behind the thought of homosexuality being inborn. Many who hold the belief that homosexuality is biologically determined assume it is therefore both normal and moral. Let's suppose for a minute that homosexuality is indeed determined by genetics or some other biological factor. Simply because it is "natural" for the individual doesn't make it "normal." (Down's syndrome is just one example of this).

It is not sound logic to make the assumption that if someone were born gay then it is wrong for religions to prohibit homosexual behavior. Most people will not argue against religious admonitions against drunkenness or violence, yet modern science has found genetic factors in these behaviors. Why would we want to elevate this particular issue over others? Religions do not require anything more from a person dealing with homosexuality then they do for anyone else - becoming what we by nature are not.

Try to repel these urges, do not act upon them, take immediate steps to get married, and throughout all of this, put your trust in God and continue making du'a to Him, and I pray that God makes your situation easy for you and blesses you in this life and the next.

Hope This article Is going to further be a public debate.It will allow the concerned Authorities to rise and shine and do the need Full.

Thank You For Reading This Article.God Bless you.

- Happy sachin