DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LOVE AND SEX
Probably most of you would have known about the topic and you might wonder why it is necessary to write about. But, though the difference is very obvious and most of you would have known, I am writing this just to make guys to understand the priority of these two.
LOVE
The definition of LOVE can be the attraction of two hearts, two minds, two souls and two lovers. LOVE is something related to heart and pertaining to emotional feeling rather than other filthy feelings. LOVE is a silent expression communicating that you like the other guy. LOVE not necessarily be expressive, or communicative, it may be silent, or can be enjoyed even from distance. LOVE is something very beautiful and it is not supposed to be destroyed by any other unsolicited feelings or outburst of emotions. LOVE is a confidential one and it has to be communicated only between the two hearts and it is not something public property where others can involve in.
I personally feel LOVE should be given priority over SEX. The reason is LOVE has no selfishness, no hatred, no discrimination etc. LOVE has a tremendous tolerance power.
SEX
On the other hand, SEX is a extreme stage of LOVE. SEX is a physical attraction of the other guy. SEX is also beautiful but very dangerous when we consider from LOVE point of view. Most of our guys would like to enjoy long term love and friendship. SEX is something can be done only after two hearts mutually agreed to do so. One point of view of SEX is, SEX is dangerous in the sense it might hamper the beautiful RELATIONSHIP, LOVE between two hearts. The reason for this is many, but one reason probably the expectation, over ambitious, hormonal feeling of attraction towards the partner etc.
So SEX is something we need to think thousand times before indulging in. So whatever comes through physical attraction may not long for long time. It is all for just for time being. Whereas, the attraction is happening in hearts and minds, will certainly long for long time and gives you a sense of feeling over the other. SEX has no tolerance power.
The main reason I pointed out here is that I was really distressed to note that many guys are being cheated by other guys after having their physical intimacy. Physical intimacy at the earlier stage is always dangerous and it even goes to the extent of spoiling your concentration power, mind etc.
My advise to the guys, please do not get attracted by the beautiful words by the guys, just wait, chat with them, understand them, their feeling, their heart, mind then you decide. I am not talking about all; I am talking about some that is all. Practically, many guys looking only for sex which is not good for a guy who is sincerely looking for a partner or for a good friend. This is one of the main reasons the guys are being depressed or very sober in their mind and mood.
- by John Max
Probably most of you would have known about the topic and you might wonder why it is necessary to write about. But, though the difference is very obvious and most of you would have known, I am writing this just to make guys to understand the priority of these two.
LOVE
The definition of LOVE can be the attraction of two hearts, two minds, two souls and two lovers. LOVE is something related to heart and pertaining to emotional feeling rather than other filthy feelings. LOVE is a silent expression communicating that you like the other guy. LOVE not necessarily be expressive, or communicative, it may be silent, or can be enjoyed even from distance. LOVE is something very beautiful and it is not supposed to be destroyed by any other unsolicited feelings or outburst of emotions. LOVE is a confidential one and it has to be communicated only between the two hearts and it is not something public property where others can involve in.
I personally feel LOVE should be given priority over SEX. The reason is LOVE has no selfishness, no hatred, no discrimination etc. LOVE has a tremendous tolerance power.
SEX
On the other hand, SEX is a extreme stage of LOVE. SEX is a physical attraction of the other guy. SEX is also beautiful but very dangerous when we consider from LOVE point of view. Most of our guys would like to enjoy long term love and friendship. SEX is something can be done only after two hearts mutually agreed to do so. One point of view of SEX is, SEX is dangerous in the sense it might hamper the beautiful RELATIONSHIP, LOVE between two hearts. The reason for this is many, but one reason probably the expectation, over ambitious, hormonal feeling of attraction towards the partner etc.
So SEX is something we need to think thousand times before indulging in. So whatever comes through physical attraction may not long for long time. It is all for just for time being. Whereas, the attraction is happening in hearts and minds, will certainly long for long time and gives you a sense of feeling over the other. SEX has no tolerance power.
The main reason I pointed out here is that I was really distressed to note that many guys are being cheated by other guys after having their physical intimacy. Physical intimacy at the earlier stage is always dangerous and it even goes to the extent of spoiling your concentration power, mind etc.
My advise to the guys, please do not get attracted by the beautiful words by the guys, just wait, chat with them, understand them, their feeling, their heart, mind then you decide. I am not talking about all; I am talking about some that is all. Practically, many guys looking only for sex which is not good for a guy who is sincerely looking for a partner or for a good friend. This is one of the main reasons the guys are being depressed or very sober in their mind and mood.
- by John Max
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