WHY RELATIONSHIP IS BREAKING AND RATIONALE BEHIND BREAKING OF RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN TWO FRIENDS.
One of the most concerned issue is “Relationship”. Often we see guys in FB using the term “Relationship” which means they are in link with other guy and it has been virtually agreed upon being friend with each other in all areas.
But, at the same we also see many incidents explaining guys’ relationship and looking so depressed, vexed all such things etc etc. Relationship is a very dangerous word that put you in a very deep depressed mode, probably most of you must have read through the comments made by the guys.
I look at this and wonder why these guys are so dependent on others and why they are so depressed? It is basically not good for your health.
The important factor that I would like to point out is that no human brain, or mind or heart can be stable for long time. They are vulnerable to change according to the situations, events, feelings, psychological and social changes etc. So I reckon all guys should be flexible to adopt to the changes.
WHY WE ARE MAKING RELATIONSHIP?
Human beings are one special living being is always longing for friendship, love, care, affection, so automatically the heart and mind searches for like minded guys. Once they got, they think that everything in their life is fulfilled, which is not actually a real fact. The reason for making relationship is to share our joy, sorrows, happy moments, sad moments everything. In order to do the above, we need a like minded one heart and mind to equally share our issues.
CAUSES FOR BREAKING RELATIONSHIP
There are many reasons to analyze the cause of breaking relationship.
The first reason is that allowing the intervention from the outside causes the confusion in our relationships.
The second reason is lack of understanding.
The third reason is succumb to the situation which forces our breaking of relationship.
The fourth reason is expecting too much on only one particular thing.
The fifth reason is not allowing the other guy to come out with his feelings.
The sixth reason is giving importance to our own feelings, thinking and not giving priority to other guy.
The seventh reason is lack of trust on the other guy.
The eighth reason is allowing or listening to the third party guys to comment about your partner guy.
The ninth reason is disclosing all our very deep personal issues without understanding the full character of the another guy.
The tenth reason is being attracted physically to the third guy after having a look at him.
The elevent and foremost important reason is early sexual attraction can cause very deep wound and break the relationship.
SUGGESTIONS TO OVERCOME THIS AND MAINTAIN GOOD AND CORDIAL RELATIONSHIP
To overcome these type of breaking relationships there are few suggestions:
Ok let me close this, I do not want to bore you all guys. Good bye.
- John Max
One of the most concerned issue is “Relationship”. Often we see guys in FB using the term “Relationship” which means they are in link with other guy and it has been virtually agreed upon being friend with each other in all areas.
But, at the same we also see many incidents explaining guys’ relationship and looking so depressed, vexed all such things etc etc. Relationship is a very dangerous word that put you in a very deep depressed mode, probably most of you must have read through the comments made by the guys.
I look at this and wonder why these guys are so dependent on others and why they are so depressed? It is basically not good for your health.
The important factor that I would like to point out is that no human brain, or mind or heart can be stable for long time. They are vulnerable to change according to the situations, events, feelings, psychological and social changes etc. So I reckon all guys should be flexible to adopt to the changes.
WHY WE ARE MAKING RELATIONSHIP?
Human beings are one special living being is always longing for friendship, love, care, affection, so automatically the heart and mind searches for like minded guys. Once they got, they think that everything in their life is fulfilled, which is not actually a real fact. The reason for making relationship is to share our joy, sorrows, happy moments, sad moments everything. In order to do the above, we need a like minded one heart and mind to equally share our issues.
CAUSES FOR BREAKING RELATIONSHIP
There are many reasons to analyze the cause of breaking relationship.
The first reason is that allowing the intervention from the outside causes the confusion in our relationships.
The second reason is lack of understanding.
The third reason is succumb to the situation which forces our breaking of relationship.
The fourth reason is expecting too much on only one particular thing.
The fifth reason is not allowing the other guy to come out with his feelings.
The sixth reason is giving importance to our own feelings, thinking and not giving priority to other guy.
The seventh reason is lack of trust on the other guy.
The eighth reason is allowing or listening to the third party guys to comment about your partner guy.
The ninth reason is disclosing all our very deep personal issues without understanding the full character of the another guy.
The tenth reason is being attracted physically to the third guy after having a look at him.
The elevent and foremost important reason is early sexual attraction can cause very deep wound and break the relationship.
SUGGESTIONS TO OVERCOME THIS AND MAINTAIN GOOD AND CORDIAL RELATIONSHIP
To overcome these type of breaking relationships there are few suggestions:
- First of all maintain just a friendly relationship and then little deeper relationship. If you trust him without understanding him fully is also the cause for the problem. So be just balance, and do not disclose all your personal information or details.
- Just maintain your relationship status in a balanced mode and have trust only 98% on him. The balance 2% you should keep it with you in the aspect that what will happen in case if he disappoints you. So your mind and heart should be courageous to face these things. That is why I stress on Balanced Mind and Heart.
- Do not be too much attracted and indulge in sexual intercourse, which will affect your long term relationship.
- In order to maintain true relationship, both of you should not listen to others, rather, you both should talk to yourselves and discuss the issues. I really do not agree with the point that some one posts his personal incidences with his boy friend or lover or whatever it may, it will virtually affects that guy. This also affects the relationship status.
- Just believe yourself and your partner but at the same time be balanced.
- Just think all are human beings and all are vulnerable to changes according to the situation. So, no need to dependent on one particular guy, cos there are many more smart guys are there in this world. Ok. All beautiful and smart are not carrying good character. When you are talking about Real word “RELATIONSHIP” Character is the foremost important factor that you need to consider above all other things.
Ok let me close this, I do not want to bore you all guys. Good bye.
- John Max
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